Tuesday, March 23, 2010

How to Get My Boyfriend to Love Me Again

Many women around the world, in different environments and different situations, at some point find themselves wanting to know how to get a boyfriend or a husband to love them again when they are not feeling the closeness that was once an everyday part of their relationship or marriage.

Several gals and ladies have been on the awful end of a breakup or divorce and wish very badly the return of their man along with his love. Although some of the women were the instigators of the broken relationship, there is hope to return to the way things were and to better the situation. If you are trying to learn how to get your boyfriend or husband back, one of the things you must understand is what guys look for in a relationship and find out if that was absent in your relationship.

So, what are the basic things that guys need or look for? Basically, guys want to feel admired and wanted. While it might be clear for you that you admire him, it may not be to him, so don't hesitate to go overboard with flirtation and fondness. Stay always attractive when you are at home with him and dress up even if you don't go to work while he is around. Let him know that he is wanted and admired.

When a man or husband leaves the current relationship for another girl, some of the girls erroneously think that their boyfriends or husbands have found prettier women. Ladies, that is not always true. In fact if for any reason you get to see the one who stole your boyfriend or partner, I am pretty sure your reaction would be something like, "what did he see in her"? It's mainly not just what he sees in her but most likely what she makes him feel. He feels respected, admired and most importantly, wanted.

In other words men want their spouses to be happy with what they have to offer them. If a girl shows signs that she is not satisfied with the good qualities his boyfriend or husband has to offer, that's what in fact drives a man away. To maintain the fire of the love alive, this is all you need to know. When you are proud of your boyfriend or husband, just make sure he knows it.